sudo apt install xfce4 xfce4-goodies
sudo apt install tigervnc-standalone-server
As the target user, set the VNC password
vncpasswd
cat << EOF >> ~/.vnc/xstartup #!/bin/bash unset SESSION_MANAGER unset DBUS_SESSION_BUS_ADDRESS [ -x /etc/vnc/xstartup ] && exec /etc/vnc/xstartup [ -r $HOME/.Xresources ] && xrdb $HOME/.Xresources vncconfig -iconic & dbus-launch --exit-with-session startxfce4 & EOF
chmod +x ~/.vnc/xstartup
vncserver -localhost no
vncserver -list
vncserver -kill :1